Let $\cos (\alpha+\beta)=-\frac{1}{10}$ and $\sin (\alpha-\beta)=\frac{3}{8}$, where $0<\alpha<\frac{\pi}{3}$ and $0<\beta<\frac{\pi}{4}$. If $\tan 2 \alpha=\frac{3(1-r \sqrt{5})}{\sqrt{11}(s+\sqrt{5})}, r, s \in N$, then $r+s$ is equal to $\_\_\_\_$ .
